Some people are completely for them and others….not so much.
Whatever end of the spectrum you are, you cannot deny there is a HUGE (huge, huge as a certain orange President would say) industry dedicated to the art of the sex toy.
We made this list for women that are interested in trying a toy but are either not sure what to get or are a little shy at going into a sex shop. You should also remember that we are not experts (at all) and the very, very cool manger of The K Road Peaches and Creme, Pierre, also wants you to know that sex toys, like your sex life is a very individual thing, and he is not a sex therapist in anyway – all of the info he’s given is based on his experience with what sells best and what feedback he gets from customers.
If You’re A Beginner:
Basically anything that is a small vibrator / wand – they are un-intimidating, easy to use and have a had a lot of market research go into them. Plus they are always on the top sellers. These also help you can experiment with find your G – Spot. Which can be something a lot of women have never really found. The Calextics range is a great place to start for this. Or if that’s even a bit much for ya, give a wand a go. They are described as ‘a very strong set up from a bullet’.
Pierre suggest that another great place to start is by getting yourself a good silicone-based lube you like the taste of – skin does’t absorb silicone – he recommends the T Wicked range. A great starter pack would be good multi-purpose lube and a little vibrator.
Wanting To Tighten Those Pelvic Muscles:
Try Double Pop Eggs – They are not only a great toy to try with someone else, but they are a fantastic way to restore pelvic muscles for sexual wellness and a stronger orgasm. This might be a good choice if you’ve given birth and are feeling like your vagina is stretched out of shape- possibly because you had to squeeze a bowling ball out of it – and it’s bothering you.
If You’ve Never Had An Orgasm:
This is something that SO SO many women struggle with – the elusive female orgasm. Pierre says that from his experience, the most women find a toy which stimulates both the G-Spot and the Clit is the way to go. So Probably pick a vibrator like this one pictured, which is made to stimulate both. Keep in mind these bad-boys are made very well so it they don’t come cheap.
Feeling A Bit Advance:
If you’re in it to win it, don’t mind forking out several hundred dollars, then may I present you with the female masterbator – The Lelo SONA is a sonic clitoral massager. That means it doesn’t rely on vibrations like a conventional sex toy. Instead, it uses sonic waves and pulses to stimulate the entire clitoris – not just the external part you can see and touch. According to our pal, Pierre, these devices are high end, with amazing results and are a top seller. The Womaniser claims it take as little as 1 minute to climax a woman. Woozer.
Into Something A Bit Kinky:
Everyone’s kink is different. So these are only some suggestions based on sales. You could try the Calexotics vibrating bullet.
The person with the control can decide when it’s on/off and which setting. Apparently this is a popular one for couples wanting to have a naughty little secrete while out in public. I’m not quite sure where the cord hides with clothes on, but hey.
I can’t write a list about sex toys without mentioning the notorious dildo. I personally don’t know many women that are fans of the dildo, but wit advancement’s in technology there is literally one for every occasion. Fun fact – a lot of dildos come with suction cups because people like to stick the on the walls, or showers and well, go nuts. Take a look at some of the range below!
Hopefully you enjoyed reading this article (we had fun researching it at Peaches and Creme) and have learned a few things that will enhance your bedroom experience!
Special shout out to Pierre and Peaches and Creme for taking the time to show us around the sex toy industry.